Hey, lovely people with the most basic needs! As you might understand from the name of this topic, we’ll dig deep into a discussion about sex, where to find and how to stay safe, etc. As you know, in our modern world, sex has become a part of the culture. And it’s common for many people to prefer casual encounters to traditional relationships with all the boring stuff most people try to avoid. Traditionalists will never understand why we opt for casual sex instead of serious relationships. Luckily, you’re not one of them, so we can skip the boring part and jump straight to the useful one. Shall we?
Hookup in Nightclubs
A nightclub is where you can relax and leave your safe bubble to have fun. It’s a whole culture. There are nightclubs with different niches catering to different people. Gay ones, lesbian, black. Nightclubs are where you can drink and get down. But ‘tis also a main scene where you can find sex for the night.
If your main goal is to find someone to bang and don’t want any awkward situations and questions “What now?” or “What was your name, again?” - this is a go-to place. But there are always a few obstacles in your way:
- Not every person at the party is looking for a one-night stand
- It’s a high chance that you can get bogged down in sentimental stuff
- There is a 50\50 chance you’ll find someone you like (if you’re sober enough)
- Your potential prospects can kind of ruin your expectations
- You can meet a scum and wake up in trunks only without money behind the club
That said, the nightclub is overall a perfect place to find real casual sex for one night. But in terms of safety and your expectations, it can be a bit tricky. So, by opting for this course of action, you ought to be on guard.
Try Sex Dating Sites
If it’s all clear enough with walking through nightclubs when searching for sex, there are always other opportunities popping up. For example, go online and hit the search for ‘sex girl near me’, there’s a huge list of dating sites that’ll pop up on your screen. And if you thought about avoiding awkward stuff (or you’re the person who got all those “No” for one evening), online sex dating sites are your best friends. Oh, yes, you still can get “No” on a dating site. But there won’t be a situation like all those girls you were flirting with watching you approach the next girl and laugh. ‘Tis a pathetic situation indeed, but you can avoid that on a dating site. Someone said “No”? Nah, block them and move on.
Is it easier to find sex on a dating site than in a nightclub? Well, yes, it definitely is. There are a lot of sexy girls here. But everything has its pros and cons. Searching for a sex partner at the ongoing rave party is fun in terms of the hunt. However, seeking someone to fuck on a dating site is more like browsing pizzas on Domino’s. Except that the variety among profiles on a dating site is considerably bigger. And safety, you won’t lose your trunks by just talking to people online (unless you’re a dummy, we hope you’re not, so we’ll share some useful safety tips later). Long story short, on a sex dating site, you have search features, GPS filters, and countless profiles of people who came for the same thing you do - sex without commitments.
Avoid General Dating Platforms
Okay, above we said about using dating sites, safety, and dummies. Here’s where our tips will come in handy. When surfing through dating sites, don’t pick the generic ones. All they want is your money, and they don’t really give a shit about your sexual needs. Use only trusted sex dating sites with a reputation. Here’s a short list of how to spot a generic dating site:
- There are redirects placed - which means when you click one link, it moves you on definitely another URL.
- There is no free basic membership - most of the scum sites won’t allow you to just sign up and create a profile for free.
- Scum sites don’t have features - most of them are created to get your money, and they even don’t bother with creating actual dating sites. Some may copy all the features, but there are no real people in chats.
- Annoying messages popping up - usually, when you just signed up on a dating site, you can start receiving messages from “Interested women.” C’mon, guys, turn on your logic. No one really will DM you if you have no time to set up your profile description and picture.
Visit Parties and Festivals
Parties, festivals, and social gatherings are like the nightclubs of the daytime (and sometimes night), except with more glitter and probably a wider variety of music. These spots are also good for meeting people who share your sexual interests in an environment that's a bit more relaxed than the thumping base of a club. Shared experiences are great icebreakers, so don't be shy to join in on activities in your search. However, finding a sex buddy at a festival is way harder than in the places we listed above. So, good luck with your patience.
Conclusion
So, there you have it – a roadmap to navigate the tricky world of seeking real sex hookups. ‘Tis irrelevant what you’re cooking, the key ingredients are safety, consent, and clear communication. Whether ‘tis a nightclub, a sex dating site, or a popular festival, there are plenty of options. Keep an open mind, lowdown your expectations, and most importantly, have fun.
